Amity & M E T – By Riyad Arefin Sohan
A friend is what the heart needs all the time – Henry Van Dyke
Yes, that’s it. I don’t like to select a particular day as the Friendship one, everyday is a Friendship day, a day for friends. We need our heart to pump well all the time, we need our friends to make it do so very well. This is why we can never ever measure the depth of friendship, true friendship. But actually there is no definition of true friendship. I’ll tell you why. Let me first tell you something. There is no such thing as true friendship, there is no division of friendship called true friendship. Disagreed? Wondered? The answer is very simple.
Every friendship is true. Every single friendship. But the friendship that doesn’t last has never been a friendship. So there’s no questioning about the difference between friendship and true friendship. They both are same. When you are friends with anyone, either that will last forever from both sides and would be called Friendship or that will vanish one day from either of the sides and would remain as Passed Times; if you want to be straightforward you can say that it was just Time Pass from both or one of the sides, or/and using each other/ one of them for self.
Let’s not make it complicated, there are close friends, distant friends, new friends, old friends, good friends, school/college/varsity/coaching/zonal friends, best friends but there is no kind of friends to put a negative adjective before the word ‘friend’ and no friend is nothing but a false friend.
Truth is that every friend was and is and will be a true friend. And who remains no longer as a friend was never your friend. You have to admit the ‘quadruple stars + ing’ truth however it may hurt.
Your anti-logic will blame you for believing itself one day when you would not like to accept but realize the truth. Whatever, definition of friendship varies from mind to mind, but the actual amity is this, when two souls makes a relation as mates, the relation will continue forever. And when it was not two souls, it would never remain forever.
Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity. – Khalil Gibran
Well…. he said well! Opportunity you’ll find when you are to build up your career, not amongst friendships. It is not an amity, but leads to an enmity. A used person knows how it feels to be used, a used soul knows that very well indeed. And humans are created with the nature to value their own feelings the most, and it’s normal, this is what all should do, but not forgetting other hearts, other’s hearts.
Won’t make you impatient more ^_^
A single rose can be my garden… a single friend, my world. – Leo Buscaglia
Hahaha, I may not k ow the person Leo but I’m one of the persons who thinks like this and maintains this, why wouldn’t we?
He who knows the True meaning of Friendship doesn’t need a bunch of friends, only one can complete an empty heart with waves of blood. It’s just like Love, the same as Love, like lovers do, only one and only a life, done! You don’t need wives or friends to live a life worthy to be lived, you need just Wife and Friend, a one and a one, if you are so lucky enough, only if you are so good enough, if you have that power in your mind, the centre of every relation.
Rare is as true love, true friendship is rarer. – Jean de la Fontaine
🙂 ! ! !